I really needed to read this article in such a desperate way. I have a very small circle of friends that I associate with, because I just have a very tough time warming up to people. Your not alone find ways and things to help you out of this funk and follow through on them. Hi Everyone…. At 72 I thought everyone was interested in everyone else, People cared about each other, people wanted to know me, my life, my children…but it was not real. I dont know how old you are but when I was 29, that was the very first time I learned that I was a somebody. I get along in the world great, however, when I am put under enormous stress, the PTSD comes out. He was also a violent alcaholic in the first three years of our marriage . Sad does not do my feelings justice. And because he hates God so much and you are the apple of Gods eye, well he hates you as well. i do believe, that even all these comments are a already a sign, that You are not alone and that You DO EXIST and You’re not an empty spot. Thank you, Isa – it’s great to hear from you! nobody cares Lyrics: Tell me why I'm waiting for someone / That couldn't give a fuck about me / Oh, oh you wouldn't / Tell me why I'm waiting for someone / That couldn't give a fuck about me / Oh, oh I was alone with my dad when he died. Allow me to spell this one out for you. Read How to Cope With Abuse When You Can’t Leave Home. Is there any parents crying like this in his/her teen days? If you can’t take good care of yourself, you can’t expect others to care about you. It’s ironic; I needed comfort and hugs from someone who knows and loves me, yet I felt like no one cares! No, I am not in the UK! I want to end it all but I’m too much of a wimp to even do that. What made it worse was my fear and insecurity. I have not other family….but Him. The other girls have married and we’ve got 12 grandchildren. You have fallen into the trap of believing what you think. She leaves us alone n stays with her sisters Writing often brings clarity and insight, and can help you cope with your feelings. And nobody cares. You have to start caring for yourself first. If you do, winning takes care … But, once I started to think about what I’m really passionate about, what makes me tick, that’s what made me start to come out of the depression I was in at that time. If you remember me, then I don't care if everyone else forgets. Yes, I feel bitter. I dont think I should put my life public just to say hello to you when you have my number and address. I still believe the banal truth, that there is always a purpose for every individual. Many people go with their families. Confusing stars for satellites. I also suffer from depression and that and the extreme loneliness feed off each other to the point where many days I just lay around and cry my eyes out. The thing that was weird was I felt it but I couldn’t let it out. I look for an escape but none take the pain away. Thank you for being here – my heart is warmed by your willingness to open up and share how you’re feeling. Given a wall of faces, I pick the serial killers every time. i never have been. It is not true that I am all alone. I met my “now” husband the first week. I wish you the best. Haruki Murakami. Had we met anywhere else we never would have spoken to each other. YOu say you are mostly and optimist and sometime feel kinda this way….then you don’t know how it feels at all on a chronic level and shouldn’t give advice. The truth is we all go through times like this. We always lived with relatives and my cousins would always pick on me!! I have no friends. I love my Lord. I was bullied mentally, physically and sexually from my step Siblings including molested by my own father. Im not understanding what to do. I read some of these stories and realize we all have a story. From that moment forward our relationship was harmed. My husband doesn’t even pay for any bills. Being around people drains me, so I spend most of my time by myself writing, walking my dogs, or playing my flute. How do you see God in the darkest times of your life? But eventually the distraction is taken away, such as with a breakup or death of a loved one, which I talk about in Words of Comfort When Your Heart is Broken. It must be so hard to feel like you’re all alone, and that you don’t have good close friends. I just have to find some confidence and hold on to hope. I allow the thoughts and feelings to come to the surface so I can face them head on. It’s really hard to reach out and ask for help (love, companionship, support, even counseling) when you feel like no one cares…but it is how you will save yourself. I hope to find happiness without being dependent to a partner. You can’t change your past, but you can cleanse your memories…, Before I Save Someone Else I Got To Save Myself, Having Anxiety Doesn’t Mean You Suck At Life, The Truth About Intimacy And HS, From Someone Who Has Had It For 23 Years, The Perfectly Imperfect Girl And How I Can’t Even Be Her, This Is What I Need In A Partner Because Of Anxiety. They love the money I make and are here when they need things. I had a dream recently that my son & I were visiting family and no one noticed we were there. You could try asking her in a gentle way if there’s anything she wants to talk about. Hello Brooke and to everyone out there! You can love yourself, Cere. What you choose to believe is your business. All I can do is keep being positive and trying to establish connections with people and just pray that one day I’ll wake up and see the life I always dreamed of in front of me. I am still alone. Nobody can love you the way God does – especially when you feel like nobody cares. It’s hard to grieve the love and family you lost…or the parental love you never had. God bless you and may God be your constant companion. Where is the proof they care? I believe I’m depressed. I love the Lord, and I pray for answers, but I don’t seem to know when he is talking to me. I cannot mope around the house while wearing yesterday’s clothes. And they were everywhere! I just go to relax and let off some steam. Any help is greatly appreciated xo. I’ve tried to force things, let nature takes it course, ignore it, but it’s always there. Sometimes I feel there’s a mountain pressing down on my heart and I can’t breath in the vast emptiness. Once in high school my brother denied knowing me and several times I’m a bit embarrassing to my siblings as I’m fat so I’m left out of alot of things. The first link I clicked on was your page and I’ve bookmarked it and read through it – there was no mention of God in my search yet this came up so I believe I was led here for a reason. But, it doesn’t mean they don’t care. Love, I’m in pain also…feel no one cares If I live or die sink or swim it’s people like us that need to commit it’s too bad it seems like we’re all so far from each other and going through this doesn’t seem right but just know I care I don’t have to know you personally but I feel your pain because it’s mine to you it’s own way…I don’t understand what’s going on in Africa I don’t know anything about it only what you’re saying is there some way you could leave? If they are not patient or understanding with you, they are less patient, understanding and loving with themselves. Hi Leslie, Blame my faith they always say. I have no one. I has losty liscence for psy. We have each other. My father was very charming publically, everyone adored him, but at home – I’ve met many “bad” people in my life, criminals for example, but I’ve only seen “evil” a couple – he was almost a demon. You become drained, etc. We as listeners care about you and we are here 24/7 to assist. I try not to think about harming myself most of the time but these days because there is no one to talk to or to relate too about the issues i have. If your parents aren’t supportive then you must support your own efforts, and be around supportive people, don’t care what others think, what matters most is how you feel and providing good experiences for yourself. Are you living at home, or with abusive family members? You do seem like a VERY strong woman, I can imagine how hard it is to care for everyone else and “not being able to see the daylight” with all these troubles, chores, worries and etc. And you may worry someone will think you’re “crazy” or weak or that they may tell others about your struggle. I have no friends. Sounds like you need medical assistance too; can government healthcare provide a home health aide for you? I have felt like this for 20 years . Derek. It’s really a hard struggle with my self esteem all the time. Remember that this is a temporary season of loneliness and isolation. It took 3-1/2 years, going all the way to the State Supreme Court, before it was over. They all took and kicked you aside. Those that say they love me, ignore my pleas to hear my words, or take my happiness into consideration. In a nutshell, take some action. So , let's assume the situation that friends don't talk to you anymore . I feel like no one cares about me, no one values me. We sold our home, & have approximately $90,000 in equity. You may not trust me because of your history of people you once trusted, who broke that trust and that’s okay. It is scary feeling as though everyone else knows their path, and/or they can accept the unknowing. And he started behaving like he was something very admirable about me. I spoke with several there during two weeks including some government agents described to stop abuse. I also had another session where I was to process the anger and rage suppressed for years. I will be praying for you ❤️, Laurie, this article is so good, helpful, and loving. I’m glad this post was comforting, and that you are beginning to see things more clearly. I feel like my friends & my family dont actually need me and I do feel like no one cares. Has anyone taken you up on your offer? I keep my thoughts and pretend nothing is wrong because my parents will stop supporting us and we still have no place to go. This is my favorite way to handle any problem I face! I’m not here to judge, but to have compassion. This lady watched her every morning; Maria’s presence was a highlight of this little old lady’s day – and Maria had no idea! Try to find some new year atmosphere. You may have failed in some or many things before, but I assure you, good things will come. I’ve witnessed the effects it has on others in my family, and of course I’ve lived it myself. I also can’t really afford it, but I’m giving myself this xmas gift of a little trip. I regret bringing a child into this life because I can’t protect him from the same and because I can’t leave this world when I want to anymore. I am lost and all alone in this world and just need to find a reason to keep going on. They didnt take his (now passed on) side but didnt take mine either. When Danny passed so was I you could say. I believe perhaps most of my problems in my life could stem from this. MY siblings all gone, brothers died of cancer, sister of heart failure. Please someone told me along time ago.Its like a piece off pie.When a piece goes missing.Find a way to fill it. I didn’t have many connections growing up either so I don’t have friends. I find Louise Hay’s morning and evening meditation very good to listen to. Get out of your head and get into your individual ability to help our world! i feel like i am loneliest person in the whole universe no one loves me no one cares about me……. One of my cousin is giving the same competitive exam & he is just too good at studies & I know he is gonna score well. You’re not alone don’t listen to those voices telling you you’re all alone I get the same voices.fight back!! It really is comforting to hear from a fellow believer, especially when it feels like nobody cares. Possible genocide can say I love her too moments are at night when everyone seems to care about.. 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